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Why do we break a glass under the chupah?

by Rabbi Naftali Silberberg

  

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King David says (Psalms 137:5-6), "If I forget you, Jerusalem, let my right hand forget [its dexterity]. Let my tongue cleave to my palate if I will not remember you, If I will not bring to mind Jerusalem during my greatest joy."

The breaking of the glass serves as a reminder that our joy is not complete. Although we may be celebrating the great joy of a wedding, we still remember and anticipate the complete restoration of, and our imminent return to, Jerusalem.

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Breaking the Glass

Posted by: Steve Lurie, Highland Park, Illinois on Mar 31, 2006

I was told by a Yashiva student, prior to going on line that the wedding ceremony concludes with the groom breaking a glass wiith his right foot. This custom dates back to the Talmudic era, and is thought to remind us that even during times of our greatest joy, we must remember the tragedies that have occurred throughout the history of the Jewish people. The guests then wish the couple Mazel Tov. This answer differs from the one given on your web site. Explanation please.

Regards,

Editor's Comment

Different words... same idea.
Jerusalem
Established by King David to be the eternal capital of Israel. Both Temples were built there, and the third Temple will be situated there when the Messiah comes.
David
King of Israel who succeeded Saul, becoming king of Israel in 876 BCE. Originally a shepherd, he became popular after he killed the Philistine strongman, Goliath. He is the progenitor of the Davidic royal dynasty -- which will return to the throne with the arrival of King Messiah.
Psalms
The Book of Psalms. One of the 24 books of the Bible. Compiled by King David; mostly comprised of poetic praise for G-d. A large part of our prayers are culled from this book.