This concept touches every area of your life. Take simple examples, like food: the Torah tells you what you can't eat. You decide what and how much you want to eat. I don't mean different levels of Kosher for different people--I mean which actual foods you will eat. Same with relationships, emotions, reactions, friendships, clothing--it's your individuality that counts.

The Torah speaks to every individual depending on their unique talents, abilities and gifts that they might use

So is it HOW you do the Mitzvah that's up to you?

Yes, and even in performing or trying to keep ALL the mitzvahs, it's up to you which one you emphasize in your life. For some it was always the mitzvah of being happy. For another, having guests on Shabbat; for yet another, extreme giving.

Of course, all mitzvahs are equally important--we don't say that one part of Torah is more important than the rest. All must be done. But the Torah doesn't dictate whether you're going to be a teacher helping kids out, or a Chazzan [cantor] singing in a Shul [synagogue]. In other words, where your talents lie, and where your particular strengths are evident, these things will automatically have emphasis in your life.

These are the individuality of the mitzvahs.

Torah is multi-dimensional, allowing every individual to express his or her uniqueness and talents through the mitzvahs.