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Rabbie has G-d forsaken me ime disabled and suffer with exterme pain in my mind and body i have no peace in my life is there anything you might suggest
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I am sorry to hear this and I feel for you.
I must preface by saying that under these challenging circumstances any answer, explanation, or insight is not meant to undermine the feeling of pain, nor is it meant to deprive you of your right to express that feeling. It is merely an effort to offer perspective, meaning, and purpose in order to help you deal with this pain.
The Talmud1 says that G-d does not give one a challenge he cannot overcome. This means if one has a bigger challenge in life they also have the necessary powers to deal with it. If they are lacking in one area, they possess abundance in another area. If they feel inferior in some ways, they are superior in others.
Spend at least twenty minutes every morning thinking about your abilities. During these minutes do not allow your mind to think about your disabilities
The challenge is to be able to look past the disabilities and focus on your amazing abilities.
G-d has not forsaken you, my friend. If you are still living that means G-d has a purpose for YOU in this world, a purpose no other human being can fulfill.
And if G-d has a purpose for you, He surely gives you the means with which to accomplish that task.
So my suggestions for you are:
Seek and find the best medical treatment possible. If you need help, contact a support group or local organization which offers such services.
Seek help for your mind as well. Find a Rabbi, therapist, and/or support groups that can help you carry yourself through the tough times.
Spend at least twenty minutes every morning thinking about your abilities. During these minutes do not allow your mind to think about your disabilities—just think about things you can do, things you like to do, and things that will make an impact of some sort for yourself and maybe even for those around you.
And remember, it is the little things that ultimately make the biggest changes. Even the biggest of mansions is started by laying down one single brick.
Finally, never forget the power of Prayer. Speak to G-d, ask for His help and guidance, and ask Him to cure you.
May the L-rd grant you a complete and speedy recovery.
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